Don Kennedy, Men’s Empowerment Coach on Instagram: "1. What do I actually want from a relationship? (Not just “vibes” - get specific.) 2. Do l love myself, or am I looking for someone to fill the gaps? 3. What are my non-negotiables? (And do I actually respect them?) 4. Am I healed — or just distracted from my wounds? 5. Can I communicate my needs without guilt or fear? 6. Do l set boundaries and enforce them? 7. Am I emotionally available — or just lonely? 8. Can I give love without…