Instead of saying stupid things to you - and just getting more hurt and angry, I wanna let you know I'm sorry, I am not able to give you answers. I know being in "limbo" hurts and sucks - and it is like that for me too. Right now, I need to let my heart / brain figure things out, and I don't know how long it will take. If you can't wait for that - then don't - there apparently are plenty of women prepared to take my place. Do what feels right - and you will never make the wrong decision.