Life is too short to put up with fools! The fools are those who think they can take the Joy and Fun out of others. But these Fools failed because they don't have Joy in their Lives. Just Misery and Defeat!
it's meaningless to say you're meant to be where you end up. It's arbitrarily renaming that 'where you're meant to be'. I don't believe anyone is meant to be anywhere. You are where you are, and end up where you end up.