Sometimes it's good to listen. Really listen. To your kids. Take a moment to talk with your kids this week. Ask a few questions. You may be surprised at what you find out! I think this can apply even to adult children!
Money system for kids. You do not get paid for chores because it's an expected part of being a family. Allowance is teaching children how to manage money. The chore list doesn't get money but the commission chart does! There are different chores on each.