Dealing With a Narcissist
There’s no shortage of narcissists being in charge of a household, and running roughshod over the people who have to live with them on a daily basis, or infecting generations with their negative spirit and energy. The good news is that there are ways to deal with a narcissist. You don’t have to stick with the same old playbook of explosive emotional reaction, fear and trauma, and intractable personal conflict.
The Biggest Misconception about Narcissism
There are lots of myths out there about narcissistic individuals becoming “self-aware” and changing their ways as a result and about how you can improve your relationship with them. My purpose in this article is to puncture what is probably the biggest misconception that some people have about narcissists. #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissistrelationshipbreakup
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Breaking up with a narcissist is never easy, whether you agreed to the breakup or were heartlessly discarded out of the blue. Here's what NOT to do after letting go of a toxic relationship with a narcissist. #breakingup #lettinggo #toxicrelationship #narcissist
The Dark Triad: Are We Gaslighting Ourselves About Narcissism? - Kim Saeed: Narcissistic Abuse Recov
When we first started learning about narcissism, most of the material we encountered was clear about how dangerous narcissists are and how detrimental it is to be in relationships with them. But now, much of the material about narcissism is leaning more towards the “self-aware” narcissist or the “vulnerable” narcissist, comparing narcissists to their targets, comparing their inner wounds, and claiming that there are ways to make things work with a narcissistic individual.
Emotional texts and emails to the narcissist...just don't - Kim Saeed: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery P
Dealing with a narcissist? Thinking about writing an emotional text or email to the narcissistic individual...letting them know exactly how you feel? Put the phone down!
10 Things to Expect When a Narcissist Knows You're Onto Them - Kim Saeed: Narcissistic Abuse Recover
When a narcissist knows you are onto them, they’ll gaslight you every chance they get in their effort to pull you back over to the dark side. Don’t let them. Here's how to go no contact with a narcissist and start recovering from narcissistic abuse. #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #kimsaeed
Does the Narcissist Miss Me? - Kim Saeed: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program
Narcissists do not think the way we do, nor experience the same emotions. If you've been wondering, do narcissists care if you move on? Here is the answer. #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticbehavior
You're Not a Narcissist for Going No Contact with the Narcissist
We often feel that implementing No Contact portrays the same lack of empathy as the narcissist's behaviors when they give us the Silent Treatment. This couldn't be further from the truth when protecting yourself against a narcissist. Going no contact is very different from the narcissistic silent treatment.
17 Signs You Might be a Love Addict - Kim Saeed: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program
Are you a love addict? Do you have a toxic, codependent relationship with a narcissist? These signs can tell you if you're addicted to love and what that means for you.
13 Unsettling Things Narcissists Do When They Think No One Is Looking - Kim Saeed: Narcissistic Abus
Things narcissists do in secret are downright scary. Here's what narcissistic behavior really looks like and how to look for signs of narcissism. #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticbehavior
Signs You Might Be a Trauma-Bonded Co-Dependent (and what to do about it) - Kim Saeed: Narcissistic
Are you in a codependent, trauma bonded toxic relationship with a narcissist? One of the most difficult challenges in working with victims of Narcissistic abuse is helping them see that they are not responsible for their abuser’s actions, behaviors, cruelty, or consequences that arise out of said partner’s bad choices.
Stop Expecting the Narcissist to Be a Good Parent - Kim Saeed: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program
Most narcissists have a narcissistic parent themselves. All they know is utter dysfunction and lack of accountability. If we are aware that we’re dealing with a narcissistic individual, we’ve got to stop expecting them to behave any other way than a narcissistic individual.
How to Attract a Narcissist Back Into Your Life - Kim Saeed: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program
Wondering how to win a narcissist back after devaluation? If you’re asking this question, perhaps the narcissist in your life is giving you the silent treatment or has discarded you for another source of supply.