He wasn't the person who hurt me most. But he shut me out, sent me away & then wondered why I wouldn't (couldn't) come back. And I'm over him. But not quite over the pain and frustration. The wounds are still there. but i have moved on :)
All too often we believe that the problem is us, when nothing could be farther from the truth. Just as the flower fails to bloom in an unfavorable environment, so to do we. Change your environment and change your life.
Actually it hurts worse. If I’m not loving in the way that is uniquely ‘my way’ then I’m not being true to myself. I have never loved half way, that kind of loving is not me. Just thinking about this brings back such hurtful memories.