Ours is the rarest! someone that means less nothing to me has so much control over how and when i get to see and talk to my Only Love. That is frustrating and if You give up planning and trying and working towards Our future someone other than Us wins.
Go and love someone exactly as they are. And then watch how quickly they transform into the greatest, truest version of themselves. When one feels seen and appreciated in their own essence, one is instantly empowered.