This one hits it right on for a situation I know someone is in right now. Shady friends can go park theirselves somewhere else!
If you have friends that are good to you and don't act shady behind you back then DON'T act shady behind theirs!
And you have always had to be the trendsetter and the leader of the pack. I just feel sorry for you.
...and they are loyal to you, never gossiping about or exploiting your sensitivities when you, or they, are feeling low (or anytime)... Friends have your back and you have theirs whether directly or indirectly. When you have found this kind of trust, you are blessed (esp by knowing enough to not settle for less which some learn the hard way). There is no substitute for this feeling. Trust...there's nothing worth more.<3
I don't do fakeness. You may not like what I say but you'll always know where you stand with me. If my actions tell you that I like you then I'm not acting. I'm a genuine person. It hasn’t always been that way but people learn and they grow. I don't understand being nice to someone's face and then shit talking them behind their back. I don't understand not being upfront and forthcoming about your feelings of others. I don't understand people's words and actions not matching...
Might want to reevaluate that Facebook friends list..... Not everyone on there is your friend! Good luck figuring out the shady ones......
So true and I could careless my family is always enough . To me No matter what I do in this life someone will not approve. I know what I want and the type of person I want to be, and that is all that matters. If my decisions make me happy with the quality of life that I lead, I win. No outside approval required. I want to surround myself with people who lift me up. If that means there are less people to do the lifting, so be it. Just sayin'! Thoughts of the day JMG
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It takes a long time to get over betrayal. Be kind to yourself. It's not easy but it can be done, and youre going to have set backs.. Just remember that the real TRUTH is not what he tells anyone. The truth for him is a whole bunch of lies he spews to serve his own Narc agenda… Don't feel replaced, remember, he will do this to everyone.. No one is special to him.. But you are special to GOD and to me.. :) by proteamundi
even though i myself can be the epitome of shady when i wanna be. ;-p