You can not have a healthy relationship with people who are wearing a mask……Be real, Be genuine, Be that unique person you are. All the people we really care about you, will love you for who you truly are.
No/low contact is the only way to go. Don't take their bait. Never argue with someone who believes their own lies. And remember: every abuser believes EVERYTHING that comes from their mouths is pure truth.
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