Make him miss you.
"I'm not going to keep waiting, I'll stop bugging you, I won't wait for you, I won't talk to you. Simple as that, Yeah it's going to hur, But I'm not going to waste my time on someone who hardly gives me any of theirs. ' treat others how you want ot be treated'. So if you treat me like crap what makes you think I will stick around?"... This is some great advice right here!
“You don’t measure love in time. You measure love in transformation. Sometimes the longest connections yield very little growth, while the briefest of encounters change everything. The heart doesn’t wear a watch - it’s timeless. It doesn’t care how long you know someone. It doesn’t care if you had a 40 year anniversary if there is no juice in the connection. What the heart cares about is resonance. Resonance that opens it, resonance that enlivens it, resonance that calls it...