I realize I checked out. When you asked me to fight for us...I did. I let you in and tried to fix all the wrongs you had about me...then YOU stopped. You should have loved me despite what you saw as "wrong with me"!!! Sad thing is...I've always had that wall so no one could. I let it down for you and you do. The wall is back...if you aren't going to try...I'm NOT either! I can check out again. Don't expect me to come back though.
I understand this one all too well. The Narcissist/Sociopath doesn't feel the need to be present in the marriage/relationship. While you are left to raise the children, work, maintain the home & cater to his/her every demand, he/she is out having their good time and concerned only about his/her self. Your needs and desires come only after his/hers has been met......if then.