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The Four Horsemen: Criticism

"People don’t usually think about what they need or what will remedy the situation. They think negatively about what their partner should stop doing to ease their own irritation or disappointment. But the positive need is a way that their partner can shine for them." Read more on The Gottman Relationship Blog:

Lecture notes for Dr. Gottmans keynote address at the 2014 American Mental Health Counselors Association Annual Conference. Mental Health Counseling, Mental And Emotional Health, Relationship Therapy, Relationship Advice, Gottman Method, Gottman Institute, John Gottman, Counseling Activities, Family Therapy

Lecture notes for Dr. Gottman's keynote address at the 2014 American Mental Health Counselors Association Annual Conference.

Lots of interesting marriage data by the Gottman labs

The Four Horsemen: Contempt

Expressing fondness and admiration for your partner can be done in little ways throughout the day. In our research, we found that the masters of relationships displayed a way of scanning their environment to find ways of appreciating their partner. Read more on The Gottman Relationship Blog: http://www.gottmanblog.com/2013/05/the-four-horsemen-contempt-weekend.html

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Ep. 9 of The #staymarried Podcast: Stonewalling Sets You Up for Failure

o avoid stonewalling: take breaks if you need to, but stay connected. Listen to Episode 9 of the #staymarried podcast.

Let's talk about stonewalling. Stonewalling occurs when the listener withdraws from the interaction, shutting down and closing themselves off from the speaker because they are feeling overwhelmed or physiologically flooded. Read more: Relationship Therapy, Relationship Blogs, Relationship Improvement, Relationship Repair, Gottman Method, Gottman Institute, John Gottman, Therapy Worksheets, Family Therapy

The Four Horsemen: Stonewalling

Let's talk about stonewalling. Stonewalling occurs when the listener withdraws from the interaction, shutting down and closing themselves off from the speaker because they are feeling overwhelmed or physiologically flooded. Read more:

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You Had Me at “Chicken Piccata”

Get Your Free #staymarried Love Notes Sign up to be the first to hear about new blog posts, podcasts, speaking events, and giveaways! As a treat, we’ll send you a free set of printable love notes straight to your inbox. FUN! Now check your email to download your #staymarried Love Notes. There was an error…

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Ep. 5 of The #staymarried Podcast: Contempt is Sulfuric Acid for Love

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Friendship and Self-Care

Happy Friday! Your Weekend Homework Assignment is up on The Gottman Relationship Blog. Today's topic: friendship.

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Ep. 8 of The #staymarried Podcast: Defensiveness Will Drive You Apart

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How to Repair The Hurt In Your Relationship — Counseling Recovery, Michelle Farris, LMFT

Knowing how to make repairs in relationships helps you heal the hurt and move on. Finding out which ones work and which ones don't will be the difference between healing and resentment.

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Episode #84 – John and Julie Gottman

Never in a million years would I have guessed when I started The Loveumentary back in 2012 that I would one day be sitting down in a hotel room with arguably the world’s foremost experts, and most celebrated researchers on the topic of romantic love – John and Julie Gottman. I’m constantly amazed that this little...

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Practice what you’ve learned about criticism this week. Can you write a complaint using a positive need to replace the criticism made in the examples shown? Read more: http://www.gottmanblog.com/2013/05/the-four-horsemen-criticism-weekend.html

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The Gottman Institute | A research-based approach to relationships

The Gottman Institute. A research-based approach to relationships. Explore our resources and tools developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman.

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Ep. 6 of The #staymarried Podcast: Finding Romance in The Little Things

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Finding Common Ground: The Harvard Negotiation Project

Remembering just ONE WORD can help you manage conflict in your relationship. Read more in today's posting on The Gottman Relationship Blog.

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The Gottman Institute on Twitter

“Successful couples devote an extra 5 hours/week to their #relationship. This is how the "Magic 5 Hours" breaks down:”